Getting to a place of loving yourself whole heartedly is amazing. Some people take longer to get to that place than others. Some people never reach that place. But whether you’re a man or woman, you have to have self love. Self love looks different for everyone. Self-love will boost your inner confidence, which wIll show in your life. Getting to a place of loving the skin you’re in, will help you embrace your femininity, sexuality, truth, and even the things you don’t like about yourself. Having self love, will boost every aspect of your life. When you are confident, that shows in your work, personal life , fitness, relationships and in every aspect. Everybody has a greatness within them, but only a few people get to a place of realizing it. When you're confident, you value yourself and do whatever you want. You don’t answer to anyone or have to explain yourself. There’s this freedom you’ll come to be obsessed with when you get to that point. When you’re confident you quit. Quit the job that doesn’t make you happy. Quit the relationships that aren’t going anywhere. Quit the life that makes you feel trapped.

Last week, Chloe Bailey, the singer and actress from the Sister duo ChloexHalle, started her own Instagram and broke the internet. She posted some videos on Instagram and some people felt some kind away. Keep in mind Chloe is a 22-year-old woman, who is embracing her femininity. For years, she’s been a Disney actress and singer who was seen as a perfect little girl. Now she's embracing her inner woman, and people are feeling uncomfortable. Late last year, the sister duo released a new album that was more “sexy,” than fans were used to. In a recent interview, Chloe and Halle both said, “As we evolve as young woman, the music will evolve with us. We are normally very private with our personal lives, but now we want to show and share more of who we truly are.” They are at the place where they want to shed their innocent image. When asked were they ever nervous on how people might react to the change, Halle said, “Nope we’re going to what our hearts desires. If we’re growing into who we are as women and want to post ourselves and look beautiful doing it, then that’s just fine.” Both Chloe, who is 20, and Halle, who is 22, have great self love and are exuding confidence as they grow from young girls to young woman.  I hate how society tries to box you into one thing, confidence will push you out that box.

Many times when women begin to embrace who they are, they receive backlash. People, men and women, assume they want attention. Owning who you are, has nothing to do with the outside world. When I feel cute and sexy, I take pictures and share it with my followers. It's just a part of my own path to self love and acceptance. Being confident allows you to share who you are, without caring what the haters say. Embrace your own sexuality and step into your confidence. That is what happens when you have true self love. It's a journey.

This isn't only for women. Men also go thru a period of embracing who they are. Men embrace their inner masculinity. I love seeing a confident man. Getting to a place of accepting all of the good and bad self traits, is key. I understand that nobody is perfect and it's always important to work on becoming a better version of you. BUT you have to love you for where you are now. If it's something you don't like about yourself, work hard to change it. I can dislike my stomach AND still love myself. Start your self love journey today, speak life into yourself. Find one think you love about yourself. Once you start, you'll learn that you have many things that make you unique. Step into your confident highest self.