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The Truth About Being Human
Dymond Phillips • Oct 15, 2018
One of the best weekends of my life quickly changed to the worse. Over the weekend I had something that I never thought would've happened EVER. The result of the incident is me being completely single. Don't get me wrong, I've been broken up with before but this time is different. I have zero ties to anybody, and I'm not sure how I feel about that. This is the first time in my life I've been completely single since like 2015. It's funny, I always wrote posts and tell people how to deal with being single but I don't know what to tell myself. As I write this post I struggle to find just exactly what I want to say. It sucks when you lose someone you genuinely care about AND when you know you're the reason why. At first initially I wasn't even going to talk about this, but after a conversation with my best friend she helped me see. I can't have a lifestyle blog without sharing my truth. I just want you to understand that, I'm far from perfect and I don't have it all figured out.
Initially, I felt extremely emotional. I didn't want to get up for work, I just wanted to lay in my bed. It wasn't until I realized that I had just wrote a post on this. (If you haven't read that post, click here https://www.dymondsdiary.com/single-post/2018/09/25/Talks-With-Dymond) After reading that post it helped me. No, the post didn't make everything better but it reassured me that I'll be fine in due time. With all that being said, I'm here to say it's okay to not be okay. At the moment I don't talk to anybody, no exes, old boo's or new flings. The situation involves others and it's not my right to tell peoples stories. That's one hard thing about blogging because you have to be willing to share things but that gets tricky when it involves someone else. I signed up for this, and I have to respect others privacy.
Breakups are going to happen, it's just crucial that you see your wrongs in every situation. You don't want to carry bad traits from relationship to relationship it'll just make you toxic. Also, don't beat yourself up about everything you did wrong nobody is perfect, life is about change and growing. Everyones biggest question is, so are you looking for another relationship? Honestly I'm not. I need some time to get me together before I decide to jump into something new. Currently starting from scratch and focusing on Dymonds wants now. The thought of sharing this post scares me because I like the world to thing I'm always good.
Everything that happened to me made me want to do the fifteen day man detox(ladies detox for you fellas). If you're single like me I'd love it if you joined me. The purpose of this is to purge my heart and to break my bad relationship habits. Looking back on past relationships and even just talking stages I can see one common factor, ME. It’s great to have a boyfriend/girlfriend or to have some kind of opposite sex attention, but it’s not the be all and end all of life. A man (female) detox is just a period of time for you to bounce back to yourself again. Do you see yourself leaping from one boyfriend to another without giving yourself time to breathe? Or have you just come out of a long-term relationship? Maybe you were seeing someone and it just ended? No matter what it is I want you to do this easy man(female) detox with me.
Are you ready to grow and glow with me? By completing this detox with me, you’ll feel yourself again. I really do believe that you’ll never be truly happy with someone until you are truly happy by and with yourself. I love me time but this is me time 2.0. My first thought after this long weekend was to delete my social media apps, change my number and just go missing. But I understand that there's people out here like me looking for another way to feel better and this is it. Will you join me? Make sure you're subscribed and following me on Instagram @Dymond_Lashay because I'll be sending short tips and tricks throughout the next fifteen days. I know it sounds long but watch how fast it goes by,
Happy Monday I hope you have a great week....
