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When is it Time To Throw in the Towel and Say Enough is Enough?
dymond phillips • Jun 13, 2017
From my personal experience, I was in a situationship, yes situationship for three years with a gentlemen who I thought would be the love of my life but for some odd reason he could never get with the program. Now don’t get me wrong he was a stand up kind of guy very respectful, sweet ,and was raised by a phenomenal family the whole nine. He had the potential to grow into an amazing man and I saw that even when he didn’t see it for himself and that was the problem. As women we are nurturers and we sometimes have in our mind that we can change a man or we can take them under our wing and help them. In reality, you can’t change someone who isn’t willing to change. It is okay to want the best for your man but you don’t want to get to a point where you are so involved with his problems or helping him get through that you lose yourself and what you have worked for. Sometimes the best thing to do for your man is to let go and allow for him to figure his journey out on his own. You can still love him and cheer him on from the stands! I had to learn this the hard way, I winded up always running to his rescue and I fell in love with the potential. There was always the conversation of “just wait, we’ll get there, I love you but we’re still growing”. I had to realize that all he wanted to do was jump from girl to girl and live the player lifestyle while I was just there when it was convenient and when it was time for family outings. It took for me to walk away and be done for him to realize what he had in front of him. I say all of of this to say, Ladies don’t allow for 2 years to pass and you wake up and forget who you are as a Queen. A good man won’t drag you along while he does what he does. What’s good for you will come back around and if it doesn’t it just wasn’t meant to be.
